"What are you doing? People your age have A, B, C and D - you don't, what is up with that?"
"Uhm, yeah, well - so, I don't have A, B, C and D, so what? There's nothing wrong with being different, is there? There's no rush."
"No, of course there isn't anything wrong with 'different'. But when you actually want A, B, C and D, there is something wrong."
"Uh-oh ... Good point. Well, maybe, actually, I just want A, B and C, but I catch your drift. Definitely. Yeah. Uhm. Hmmm."